Take and Give
We all know about this system, the
system that consciously flowing in our blood
and become the habit. Instead of something that we diminished, we tend
to preserve it. But unfortunately we forgot that this is a common thing.
Interesting, isn’t it? Something ingrained, has become a habit sometimes become
the lost ones in life.
To give and to receive, when i was
doing field research, #yiehh, I found something about this system (hehe, what amaze my word :P )
Me and my surroundings become the
research material.
I accidentally found that we who have
received would do something meaningful in the same way to the giver. Don’t you
remember the old proverb saying “remember about the kindness of people but
remember not your kindness to them”
Of course this is intended for the
sincerity and how grateful we are, for what we have and share it together. And
of course the kindness of everyone have the different level to the receiver or
the giver seen from the condition owned but back to the basic how big our
gratitude to receive and our sincerity to give.
And then, how about the stingy?
Personally I thing, they’re all the
people who overestimate in imagining something, they always think much, and
bigger, doesn’t enough. When they try to give in their imagination is
“woo if I give something for them,
they will ask for more again and again, how about my wealth?"
“that person has to be given more…”
And so forth,
But actually let’s start to give from
the very little things, for example to give the opportunity to live of the
smallest animal, ants. When an ant’s creeping on hand, either we slap it ‘till
it die, we might swept it away. Just try
to put your hand close to the wall, till it moves from your hand to the wall,
if it can make you smile, how about that ant which you safe its life?
You might be so grateful. Therefore from this little habit will produce a big result. We never know what we give
now will take the return someday, right? It’s not expect for the return, but me
as a human being also can’t deny that there will be consequences to every
causes. And life just like a mirror, if we do good we will receive good either,
otherwise if we do evil we’ll get evil in return. And I do belive in life,
karma does exist. Not in expected time but in the time of needed. It reminds me
how the dragons movie series showtimes begin to decrease because of the
insinuation from raditya dika. It really gets me and my mom going. We can’t
stand to see the movie series in Indosiar. The evil ones seemed like wanted to
pelted with coins. Eventually, we can always guess the end of the movies: ended
up happily.
To give and to receive aren’t things
that don’t have the rules. For I believe we must give in the proper time so
we’ll also receive in the right time according to our needs. For the instance,
we give a cheat in daily examination, well it can’t be classified as a gift but
it fooled them. Those who given might be very thankful but don’t you feel sorry
for them, how could they be in the future. It
become the hardest thing because
it oftentimes happen to me in the class. When I didn’t want to give a cheat
they would looked at me cynically evenmore they’ll give me a warning. Feeling
sorry of them is the biggest factor (“it’s ok to graduate together but use the
right way”), and don’t wait until you help someone to receive from them stick
to your mind. What’s the return, whatttt…..OMG, what if the person you help
actually is the one who stuck with their debt for 7 generations with 8 children
and 2 wifes and have to support his mother in law? this life is hard men, so
don’t make it hard to your self by giving the false hopes.
So remember guys to
give and to receive have the nice sensation to everyone,
so don’t want you to
taste that sensation?
Life is just temporary…
so dare yourself to do good to
everyone.
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